Identifying the
nine-grain honey wheat rather than the eight-grain or ten-grain or even just plain old multi-grain honey wheat is an indication of an attention to detail, and an appreciation of detail, of craft, of something done right. There's also a sense of compromise, like you were all set on buying the bread that your husband prefers at the opportunity cost of something you love, but only when it's not there are you willing to get something you love that your husband will like.
You have particular tastes in things, and can be very devoted to certain things you like. You have an attention to detail. You understand the need for -- and are willing to -- compromise.
Your practical side emerges here in terms of picking up the better quality milk with a longer shelf-life. I think you also value the knowledge that putting this milk in the fridge is mainly a marketing ploy; you value "being in the know".
You tend to have a matter-of-fact outlook in terms of what your goals are, and how you can achieve them. It is important to you to be informed, and to make informed decisions. Probably you research the shit out of things before you buy them online.
Wow, okay. This one is tough.
We can start with the easy observations. Turning around rather than trying to get the aisle unblocked again points to your willingness to compromise. For others this could easily become a point of conflict, like how could this inconsiderate dumb lazy stupid bitch block the aisle for the whole supermarket (... and them). But this is not your reaction. You see her as doing so absentmindedly. So there's definitely a sense of empathy there, and a lack of drama. A sort of live-and-let-live attitude.
The next thing is your relation to her, which is tricky. The fact that "nothing is made right now anyway" sounds a bit like you're saying that in her voice, or at least that you respect her position. So again it comes back to an attention to detail, but also a sense of nostalgia. There's also the fact that her scowl is deep, and nobody is listening to her, which is hard to unpick as they kind of contradict in terms of how I would interpret them. The fact that nobody listens to her could be something that you identify in yourself, like you are alone on certain opinions. The thing is that the deep scowl is not something you would immediately assign to someone you want to identify with, so the construct is hard to read (maybe you think she is right/brave/honest to scowl like that). Ultimately she apologises, so I think you definitely sympathise with her, and with her opinion.
The grandson is a tricky one. He's 45 but acting in an irresponsible, childish, maybe selfish way. The fact that he's guarding her purse assigns him the role of protecting and watching out for her, but he's abdicating that role, more interested in his phone (it's also interesting that you note that the purse needs to be guarded). He doesn't hear her about how things have gone to shit. I really don't know if this is someone in your life, or men in general but I'm getting an overall impression here that men don't pull their weight, or are somehow freer to pursue their interests oblivious to the responsibilities that correspond to them than women are; or, more specifically, that the men in your life get to be more carefree than you can afford to be.
Again, you are considerate, empathetic and forgiving. You have some nostalgia for the way things were in the past. There's perhaps an element of you pulling your weight more than people close to you, and of not being heard by people close to you.
Commitment, basically. You already have your bread. Interesting that (1) you were offered something you already have, but (2) it doesn't seem to bother you. Anyways, no need to overcomplicate this one.
You are committed and loyal. You are independent and do not generally expect much help from others.
The fact that
many people have already pushed their carts through it suggests a sense that many people around you are oblivious or ambivalent to the greater good. You make an effort to not make the mess worse than it already is. The fact that you have a basket, not a cart, means that you see your needs as small. Even though many have already made a huge mess, and your plan is to not make it worse, you get obstructed from getting what few things you need by the authorities in place.
You are respectful of the needs of others and of your surroundings. You feel like you don't need much. You are strongly independent. Others tend to mess up or obstruct your careful plans.
Well that sucks! The bread sounded nice.
You feel undervalued sometimes. You are perhaps more adventurous than your husband, and wish he would be more open to try more new things with you.
Overall, you don't really spend much time on the people in the supermarket, other than the old lady and the grandson. You assign much more detail to the bread than the people. In the case of the old lady and the grandson, you assign them ages, but don't mention a single detail otherwise about their appearance: are they skinny, fat, short, tall, what hair they have, clothes, etc.
You are comfortable in your appearance, not "skin-deep", and generally self-assured. You form close relationships with few people and really value people with whom you share interests.
I think you should go treat yourself to something nice.
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