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Thread: Do You Hurt Like I Hurt (A Thread About Slapping and What Constitutes Abuse)

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    Oh, I can't wait for Sinny's answer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mxx View Post
    Oh, I can't wait for Sinny's answer.
    Thought you were asleep.


    I don't need to be angry or fearful for an excuse to punch a bloke.

    I'd punch you just for the sake of it, @Guess Who

    In fact, I'd do everything I could to grate on your every last nerve and destroy your "Christian" morals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinny View Post
    I don't need to be angry or fearful for an excuse to punch a bloke.

    I'd punch you just for the sake of it, @Guess Who
    I was merely trying to get a better understanding of what drives female on male violence. I can see the internal turmoil in the perpetrators of violence I've met in real life and do genuinely feel sorry for them. I was not trying to be judgemental. My desire in relation to violence is be for the perpetrator to be healed in relation to any issues that are driving such violence so they can find inner peace.

    Quote Originally Posted by Sinny View Post
    In fact, I'd do everything I could to grate on your every last nerve and destroy your "Christian" morals.
    My patience is infinite so that wouldn't work. You are welcome to try but I am confident that you'd find that it was you that was changed as a result of any attempt by you to change me.
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    1) Asking an INTP Enneagram 8 isn't the best way to obtan a "female" perspective

    2) You don't have to "try", in order to be judgmental (you just are)

    3) The way to "heal" my aggression is to let it out

    4) I would love to put that to the test, but unfortunately can't

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sinny View Post
    2) You don't have to "try", in order to be judgmental (you just are)
    Perhaps I am judgemental in the sense that I can see what is in people's hearts and speak the truth about both the cause and the internal change necessary to resolve the issue in question. Perhaps you are so upset because I was right on the mark. If my analysis was wrong, then you could have just stated that I was wrong and you would have been unlikely to get this upset.

    I am not judgemental in the sense that I would say that the perpetrators of violence are evil people who are beyond hope and deserve to be locked up and have the key thrown away. I can see what is in their hearts and can imagine what terrible life experiences have led them to where they are, so I actually have a lot of compassion for them.

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    3) The way to "heal" my aggression is to let it out
    Letting one's pent-up aggression out would definitely bring a sense of release. However, it won't actually heal the underlying cause of the aggression. The solution to fears and anger that give rise to aggression is to gradually allow love into one's heart.

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    4) I would love to put that to the test, but unfortunately can't
    OK. Maybe you will have the opportunity in the future.
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    I can't recall ever having been slapped by a woman out of anger. Honestly, I want to put that on my bucket list. A dramatic and authentic slap, hair toss.. and then she just walks away, leaving me to wonder what I've done wrong. I mean, sounds like the start of a porno.
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    Quote Originally Posted by stigmatica View Post
    I can't recall ever having been slapped by a woman out of anger. Honestly, I want to put that on my bucket list. A dramatic and authentic slap, hair toss.. and then she just walks away, leaving me to wonder what I've done wrong. I mean, sounds like the start of a porno.
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