@oxyjen and @jigglypuff
If I'm seeming to pressure her, that's not my intention. I thought I mentioned that I have no stake in it. Sounds dysfunctional by her description, anyway.
The decision seems to be made already. I probe because the psyche is interesting, and I see psyche-probing as productive, even after the practical matter of making the decision is done with.
I personally don't have 'dealbreakers' which are independent from context. The check-box approach to relationships just seems really superficial, to me.
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