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    Type Five (the Investigator)
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    Type Eight (the Challenger)


    What Each Type Brings to the Relationship:

    These two types bring to each other complementary and reciprocal talents — just what the other needs but is not necessarily aware of.

    For instance, Enneagram Fives need to be more identified with their body and with their instinctive energy; they need to be more engaged with the practical world and to feel their own sense of power and capacity. They can learn these qualities from Eights.

    On the other hand, Eights need to be more thoughtful and aware of the impact of their actions on themselves and on their environment. They need to know more and to think of consequences more carefully before acting. Every action produces a reaction, and it is not necessarily the one that the Eight wants to happen. This kind of analytic foresight is something Eights can learn from Fives.

    Besides these qualities, both Fives and Eights bring a common insistence on independence and non-interference from others. Both types are aware of boundaries and dislike intrusion.

    Both enjoy a good debate, and both admire someone who stands up for himself intellectually and/or physically.

    Both types feel like misfits and so they understand each other's emotional core, often in an unspoken way.

    Both types need personal space, but when they find each other, they can both show a surprising degree of need and vulnerability.

    They see the other person behind the defense, relating to each others' sense of dignity and hidden vulnerabilities.

    Both can be stoical toward their own suffering and unhappiness, with little or no self-pity. As a couple, they can bring power and depth, action and thoughtfulness, brilliance and brashness to their world.

    They are also the natural protectors and advisors of each other: Eights love to protect less tough Fives, and Fives help Eights recognize the subtleties for their plans and actions. These two types can therefore band together as a coalition of power and brains, a formidable combination.

    Potential Trouble Spots or Issues:

    Fives are not much in touch with their physical bodies—they identify with their minds and are indifferent to virtually all of the physical and practical goals that more earthy Eights have.

    Not wanting a house, a company, or a spouse are all sources of pride to average Fives who feel good about themselves when they can cut off from their needs and learn to do without.

    Eights, by contrast, take pride in their earthly conquests, whether socially, financially, sexually, or psychologically.

    Making their mark on their environment is a primary goal for Eights and they often use their physical stature and energy to intimidate people and enforce their will.

    Thus, the more insecure these two types become, the more they react in completely opposite ways: Fives shut down more completely, become more taciturn, secretive, and isolated, while Eights become more confrontational, threatening, and enraged.

    The biggest problem is that in the lower Levels, these two separate physically from the other and any real communication ceases to take place.

    Lower functioning Fives tend to lose respect for anyone they judge to be irrational, destructive, and out of control. The storminess and threats of unhealthy Eights terrify Fives who must physically leave to feel safe.

    They know and will attack each other's vulnerabilities if sufficiently provoked—and both Fives and Eights tend to provoke each other as a way of protecting themselves. Both types are also sensitive to rejection and both tend to feel rejected easily.

    The Five's departure will trigger a strong rejection reaction in the Eight who will likely retaliate in any way that he or she can.

    An Eight's departure will trigger the Five's rejection feelings, but more likely with a collapse into cynicism and depression.

    Both can be extremely cynical, and the demise of their relationship only confirms their darkest opinions about the possibility of human beings living together.

    For further understanding about this type combination, read more about the Stress Arrow and how types Five and Eight behave when they are moving along it.
    Those who begin coercive elimination of dissent soon find themselves exterminating dissenters. Compulsory unification of opinion achieves only the unanimity of the graveyard.

    ~ Robert Jackson, Statesman (1892-1954)


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    Those who begin coercive elimination of dissent soon find themselves exterminating dissenters. Compulsory unification of opinion achieves only the unanimity of the graveyard.

    ~ Robert Jackson, Statesman (1892-1954)


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    @Robcore

    An overview of the Enneagram:



    Some in-depth type explanations for you to get a feel:


    Enneagram 8 (me)




    Enneagram 5 (many other INTPs)




    Enneagram 9 (you)




    Enneagram 1 (Ptah)

    Those who begin coercive elimination of dissent soon find themselves exterminating dissenters. Compulsory unification of opinion achieves only the unanimity of the graveyard.

    ~ Robert Jackson, Statesman (1892-1954)


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    I really liked the overview video...the rest are kind of dry and boring. The type 9 one is somewhat accurate for me...I'm not a hoarder, or prone to hurting myself (unless Crohn's disease counts, maybe? perhaps more consequent to eating poorly for comfort for so long?)...but the rest is at least partly true during various phases of my life. I feel like I've overcome many of the nine hurdles, even though I've encountered them all at various times.
    Thanks for sharing. The first video has me intrigued enough to dabble some more. I'm probably at 80% of my capacity to care about MBTI, so as a nine, it's probably the right time to move on! haha
    ...the origin of emotional sickness lay in people’s belief that they were their personalities...
    "The pendulum of the mind alternates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong." ~Carl Jung

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    Yeah those other videos are at a slower more casual pace... I suppose I could have chosen better for audience other than myself... But I like how yours is named "The Saint"

    I really enjoy the style of the lady in the overview video too, she really does capture a lot and gets directly to the core, undiluted theory.

    I like how she calls Ones out on rebelling against themselves and turning into dictators (cough, cough, wink, wink), how Twos force their love on people, how Sevens are always on the move to distract themselves from the moment and so on and so forth... (Wish she paid Eights more lip service though - she just called us Sadistic).

    I definitely have more of an affinity for the Enneagram than MBTI.. the Enneagram really gets to the core of psychology of the psyche, it encapsulates the personas and the defence mechanisms we adopt from a young age to deal with various trauma..

    I think it's also complimentary to Wilhelm Reich's Character Analysis and Alexander Lowens, Language of the Body.. which falls under the practice and study of Bio-energetics.
    Those who begin coercive elimination of dissent soon find themselves exterminating dissenters. Compulsory unification of opinion achieves only the unanimity of the graveyard.

    ~ Robert Jackson, Statesman (1892-1954)


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    Yeah, she was awesome. Gave me great insight into my bro's GF...definitely a 3w4. And I'm pretty sure my wife is a 2...which I found hilarious in contrast to the 9 description where the 9 doesn't want to be touched, and the 2 is like 'touch, touch, touch, touch, touch, now validate me!' lol.

    Haven't heard of bio-energetics, I think...but that sounds intriguing, too...I tend to enjoy any takes on being human that focus on the subtle energy patterns of life.
    ...the origin of emotional sickness lay in people’s belief that they were their personalities...
    "The pendulum of the mind alternates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong." ~Carl Jung

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