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    Quote Originally Posted by rokki balbotox View Post
    We got back together
    Secret Lovers that's what we are, we shouldn't be together
    But we can't let it go, oh no, cause we love each other so
    Sabor original

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    May i ask what your upbringing was like? Did a parent or parents display narcissistic and or borderline tendencies? Conditional love, exploitation of your perceived character defects? Gaslighting, invalidation through intentional
    silence. Low prioritization of your personal goals and struggles? Discontinuity between the perception of you within the family nexus that consistently conflicts with how others who do not know your past see you?

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    May i ask what your upbringing was like? Did a parent or parents display narcissistic and or borderline tendencies? Conditional love, exploitation of your perceived character defects? Gaslighting, invalidation through intentional
    silence. Low prioritization of your personal goals and struggles? Discontinuity between the perception of you within the family nexus that consistently conflicts with how others who do not know your past see you?

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    Quote Originally Posted by rokki balbotox View Post
    We got back together
    Had a feeling you might.
    When tyranny becomes law
    Rebellion becomes duty.



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    Quote Originally Posted by rokki balbotox View Post
    We got back together
    Quote Originally Posted by Hephaestus View Post
    Heh. We've been here years now.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bking View Post
    May i ask what your upbringing was like? Did a parent or parents display narcissistic and or borderline tendencies? Conditional love, exploitation of your perceived character defects? Gaslighting, invalidation through intentional
    silence. Low prioritization of your personal goals and struggles? Discontinuity between the perception of you within the family nexus that consistently conflicts with how others who do not know your past see you?
    My parents' parenting style was laissez faire and I'm spoiled even at 30, rotten

    Absolutely rotten

    Literally my gf reprimanded me for asking my mom to walk back into my room to bring me a drink that my gf says was within arms reach of me

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    Quote Originally Posted by rokki balbotox View Post
    We got back together
    Sabor original

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